Posted on April 6, 2009 - by rdilipk1

A Miss or, a Mrs. – The controversy of the title

A couple of days back there was an interesting article in one of the leading dailies. It was about the usage of a title in the name. The article was around the usage of Miss and Mrs as the title to a lady’s name.

There were a lot of views from a lot of celebrities. Everybody had a different take on it with most of the so called successful ladies saying that it was improper to use one of the above titles. The reason being quoted were very funny indeed. One of these successful ladies said that it revealed the marital status of a lady and when a man used Mr as his title, there was no such revelation. If ladies are to use either a Miss or, a Mrs, in their names then there should be something similar for their male counterparts as well so that it is revealed if he is married or, not. Funny arguments, isn’t it?

Yet another successful woman said, the use of one of these titles in their name leads to the exploitation of a woman because people would then get to know if they are married or, not and take advantage of them.

After reading through the entire article, I was surprised at the thoughts of these successful ladies. Does it really matter as to what is it that you are using as your title? It does not. A woman I one of the finest creations of god. She was created much more powerful than a man. The strength might not be physical but it was emotional and mental strength that she was stronger in. Does this strength of her dry away if she uses a Mrs in her name? Of course not. She will be respected for what she is. It does not really matter as to what your title is. The choice would be specific to a lady. Let her take her own decision as to what is it that she wants to use as her title.

These successful ladies with there idiotic thoughts are the main obstacle to the growth of the other women in the society. They trigger these kind of unnecessary thoughts and prompt to fight for unnecessary things thus triggering a conflict between the two sexes.

My request to them is, please work towards the growth of women. Do not waste your time and resources in unnecessary discussions like the “Title of a person”.

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